Men and Women

A man should always be a man. With possessive nature, ego, strong, smart, and maybe a little pervert. Being a gentleman doesn't mean all those values need to be sacrificed. We might had read a lot of articles about the negative nature of men stating that they are lazy, not understanding, selfish, or dirty but we rarely see articles that condemn women. This is because most of the writers in the world are females. Male writers are mostly write about cars, real estate, business, or making money. That is how men were created to be. They don't care about what others said about them. Most of us will just admit what the articles told us and forward them to friends with smiles.

For a guy, you should always pick a girl with your eyes. Pick the pretty one with nice figure or anything that pleases you. Get to know her quickly or you'll lose the chance forever. Tell her that you like her and work a relationship. Then decide with your heart if she is the person to live your life forever. If she's not the right person, pick another. In a relationship, everything should be balanced. Don't force yourself to accept something you don't like. Nobody is perfect but a good relationship is what makes you feel ease an relaxed. Makes you calm when you are in anger. If a relationship will only make you feel worse or tense, don't force yourself to continue. Men can't be forced and don't like to be forced. Whenever there is something in the relationship that can't be fixed even after you tried, don't wait too long to start looking for a new girl. Don't be afraid to break hearts because that is what suppose to happen. Either men or women, everybody breaks hearts. The difference is how we handle the situation.

Women might not like what I write here. Asking guys to break hearts. Women break more hearts than men but that has became a norm to the world and everybody accepted it. In civilized world, men can only ask but women are to decide whether to accept or not. When rejected, a gentleman would just say that she is not the right person. I admit that some guys will act like a jerk after being rejected. What happened in a case of break-up? When a man wants a break-up, he will be called a jerk, not loyal, playboy, womanizer or anything. When women breaks a relationship, people would just say it is destiny. Nobody blame them except the heart-broken man. It is just what women do and guy can accept that. Women would say that break-up brings no effect to men. It did brings something. The difference is men don't cry. Men usually don't show their feelings to others. When guys are heart-broken, they are filled with anger and hate. A wise person will learn a good lesson but those who can't control those anger and hate might end up being criminals. As always, men will take the blame for everything.

Women will always be women. They break promises but they don't admit it. Why? Just because they don't say "I promise". The asked to meet you at 8 but still you have to wait at least 15 minutes before you can see her face. They told you that we have to know each other first before starting to have commitment but finally she end up dating with someone she barely knew. If you could record every conversation you had with a women, you might find what I write here is true. If there is any denial, just press the rewind button and replay. Unfortunately there are no such thing. Women know that men don't usually fall for someone whose not pretty. That is why they spend hours in front of the mirror, spend money for beauty products or spa. They dress beautifully or sexy to get attention. They want to be appreciated for their beauty but you still hear from them "Don't just look at physical appearance". You might hear somewhere that "girls love bad guys". That is a really true statement. Therefore don't try to be a perfect guy for someone. Changing yourself to be better is different but it also must be on your own will. Don't just change because someone ask you to. This is because a girl might ask you to be like "this" then after a while she would ask you to be like "that". It will never stop. A female friend might had told you that want a nice guy, gentleman, smart, or not smoking but when you meet her boyfriend, everything is total opposite.

This is how human are. Now matter what happened to the world, men and women will never change. Don't try to be someone else because that will never work. This article might sound like a one sided argument. I hope anybody who read this could give an honest comment and don't just "Hey, nice.." or "That is not true". Male or female, your comments are really welcomed.